Go for it or wait until you have lost it then miss it?

    People say that there is a right time for everything but really is there? If you go too early you can make the situation worse and the same it you go too late. Go for it? Nothing you do will really please everyone in reality so really you need to look at the same situation from many different perspectives to see what is best. What is best? That is the hard question. You will feel it when you have got it.

    Sometimes people have a gut instinct knowing exactly what they want but are too stubborn just to reach out and get it focusing more about opinions and attitudes that the society have about their actions instead of focusing on their actions and the reasons behind doing such things. Others may say that sometimes it is best to wait and let whatever may be destined be but imagine waiting a lifetime for an opportunity then one day when it is staring you in the face you don’t take it and all this time you have waited for the ‘right’ moment suddenly an event snatches this opportunity and you cannot get it back. You feel sorrow and regret because something you could of had drifted or was suddenly snatched out of your life with without a fight. This is a strong example of ‘whatever you contribute, you get back’ so if you do not put in effort, don’t expect anything back.

      Unfortunately of course it is easier said than done but trust me I have been there and brought the T-shirt many times which is why it makes me realise that we should not take things for granted as whenever something is broken it can never be fixed back exactly how it was and also a certain part of you seems to go away but no one notices as you keep yourself to yourself which sometimes seems easier when you are doing it as you don’t really want people to know your business or weaknesses so in future they could use it against you.

    It is better to express or communicate these thoughts somehow otherwise the little things you may think is not that much of a big deal could build up until you cannot breaking point as mainly it is the most unexpected people that put fronts on hide everything simply because they don’t want attention for issues of negativity and they don’t want people to look at them in a different light.

    Overall I personally conclude that going for it seems like the best idea as if you go to early at least you can say you tried but leaving it too late, you will basically have to suffer the consequences which seem harsh but you had the chance and you didn’t take it. Decisions...decisions...